Thank you so much for taking the time to read these rules. It's honestly much appreciated. The reason to read it is just to make sure you feel confident that things will go well between us.

You must be at least 22 years old to access my services. If you look very young, please bring ID. As for old age, if you have mobility issues like really stiff, erratic movement, or if you have hearing problems, we are not compatible.

Weight restrictions apply only to in-person sessions for "Conscious Touch" and "Conscious Freedom" : I have a very small shower, and it is not non-standard build, but for a standard build, it is the minimum one-person size. So, if you would not fit in the shower, or be able to reach to clean your body too well in a space like that, it's best if you don't come in. 

No Sexting or Crass Speech : 

Please keep your words by text free of the deliberate raising of sexual energy. Feel what you feel inside, but keep your words geared to arrangements. I do not provide sexting services, for free or for money. The reason is not at all because I don't think that by text there can be true intimacy - I believe in that. This is for business reasons which would be too long winded to explain here, but trust me I have put a lot of thought into this. 

Do not announce your skin color : 

Please do not introduce yourself with your skin color, racial background, or any photos of you - especially if you are white (because whites have more privelege, and this kinda sounds like tolerance of inequality as an attempt to use the advantage). I believe it's what's on the inside that counts, and I don't judge by the color of people's skin. People who announce that they are white / caucasian, as if that's supposed to make me feel more comfortable, will not receive response. 

Please do not physically push me into anything, such as forcefully (even with a playful and joyful feeling) move my body into positions for me. Also, please do not pull my hair, or hit me. Of course this would always be well intended for fun, but it's still not allowed. That said, it's OK if you want to pick me up by surprise to carry me 😂❤️

No Consultations on the Design of my Image :

Please avoid giving me advice or making requests about things like how I should do my hair, makeup, dress of any kind, or manage my weight. I am a true artist of my image in these ways, and I want to be able to honestly take all the credit for the creative design - I deserve it because I'm the one putting in the work. However you can request which lingerie set I wear, based from the options in my photos. 

No Begging :

If I ever do say no to a request of yours, or state a boundary, asking me once again for something I have already said no to is serious. Saying please, begging etc, is strictly not allowed.

No Criticisms :

Please keep criticisms to yourself, and keep them out of the public, which is the same as telling me directly. Everyone has a different opinion. What's best for me is not to be subject to everyone's contradictory opinions and have to integrate these in my own self-image. Critical feedback can be helpful sometimes in life, but in my situation being open to a diversity of people, it is not healthy within this context. I am capable of developing myself without your help.

No Requests for Services Not Already Listed :

Please do not request services that are not openly offered, especially by way of offering money for them. I don't mind when people ask if there are any extras, but not when what they are looking for is specified. Anything I am comfortable with offering will be openly listed. That said, just seeking clarification on what I have listed is always all good.

If you are diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder or anything more serious than that like Dissociative Identity Disorder, I will not be able to see you. Also, if you are diagnosed with Bipolar, the severity may greatly vary from person to person, so please feel free to discuss with me by text about it. Otherwise, there should be no problem, even with schizophrenia, major depression, most PTSD or anxiety / panic disorders. Some paranoia issues may likely come in the way of smooth relating at times, but I think we can figure it out as we go.

If you are not diagnosed for something, that means you don't have it as far as I'm concerned - and that is also the official opinion of doctors.